Is my boyfriend a swinger? GUYS please give me your opinion?

sliknydinkydoodahday asked:


We have been together for 5 years, definitley a boring relationship and sex life. I found out yesterday that the house he goes toi all the time with “our” so called friends is like a swinger house, you know they all sleep with each other. I dont go with him over there because I stay home with our 2 kids. I wouldn’t call him a cheater, or at least I wouldn’t think of him to do that because he has erectile dysfunction, he cant stay hard for more than 2 mins and cums at the slightest touch and he is not circumsized which makes him very modest. But I don’t know what to think? Guys if yoiu had all those problems would you be a swinger? Or do you think he just watches, all the girls over there are pretty and they are stripper sluts, with boyfriends and husbands that like that stuff too, what do you think

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7 Responses to “Is my boyfriend a swinger? GUYS please give me your opinion?”

  1. staticroad792 says:

    swinging is when a couple swap with another couple. you’re not involved, so he’s not a swinger. there’s something strange going on there though, why don’t you ask him about it? isn’t the key to a good relationship communication?

  2. TomCruise says:

    He could still be taking part in the action. With his tounge and fingers. But I think it’s not good to let him keep going there

  3. m.scott75 says:

    I dont think he is necessarily cheating on you .Maybe he is experimenting with someone over there and just trying to practise out new methods to try with you at home to make him last longer. I think you really need to speak to him about why he goes there. As i said earlier it may not be just because he as an intention to cheat on you.
    Good Luck.
    Michelle xxxxx.

  4. medic says:

    if u r not married he is really not cheating on you. yall have no contract or agreement. if u were married that would be different. maybe he just sits in the corner and beats it

  5. sorrells316 says:

    maybe his erectile dysfunction started functioning again, he might just like to watch, go over sometime unannounced, be prepared to just leave though. make sure you have a excuse so he will not suspect why you came over there.

  6. redpeach_mi says:

    it’s nothing against you, but maybe he only has those problems with you. maybe being with one woman on a one-to-one basis is not what gets him off. some people have different fantasies than the rest of us. talk to him about it. i would be pissed if my man was even there without me knowing. just ask him what’s up, maybe he does just watch.

  7. mr phraze says:

    have you talked to him about cumming so quick?. yea being uncircumcised would make u sensitive and all but like what your saying, how do you have sex?. if he cums in 2 mins?. I think u guys should go to the novelty store and find him some creams that will make him last a bit longer.

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